Jana Hocking claims she knows if your partner is cheating on you
She’s been cheated on three times and was sick of each one
“If you feel you might find something, you will.”
Unpopular Truth: You know if your partner is cheating.
Now you can stamp your feet and claim that you were completely surprised, but were you really? A deeper look into your relationship reveals that the signs were early on.
Speaking from experience, I’ve been cheated on three times and each time I’ve found myself horribly upset, but were you surprised? So trust me when I say you know 100 million percent when your partner is cheating.
The first time I discovered my partner was cheating was with my first suitable boyfriend, fresh out of high school. That means squatting doodling in the cheating world because even nice guy cheats do.
I can pinpoint the exact moment when he had a sixth sense that he had done something wrong. He went to college a year before she did me and started talking nonstop about this girl in her new group of friends. Immediately, I knew something was wrong. I was finally introduced to her one weekend when she traveled to stay at his dorm, she was warm but distant.
“I’ve been cheated on three times, and each time I was very upset. Surprised? Hmm…not much,” says Yana (pictured)
Then we all went to the pub and I noticed that he was always jumping up to help her get a drink or laughing at an inside joke.
I checked his phone later that night and indeed there was a text from her asking, “When are you going to talk to her?” By the end of that weekend he broke up with me and a week later he officially broke up with her.
Heartbreaking.
The second time I was cheated was a little more brutal, but again the signs were there early. The first time we met was when he came to my parents’ house to pick up my brother for a party. I was staying there for the weekend and he saw me running from the shower to the bedroom. He quickly pushed my brother away, banged on my door and invited me to a party.
This is why your husband is cheating, writes SAMANTHA X
I was a journalist for a national magazine before abandoning “normal life” to become an escort in my late thirties. Not a decision most people make when seeking change, but it suited me for many complex reasons even I struggle to understand. did you come to
1. someone to talk to
Believe it or not, men love to talk. They are emotional and very vulnerable.
2. No foreplay
A man secretly wants to spend hours in bed with you, but he says he’s tired of being rejected. They miss the foreplay (which in turn doesn’t please you) and always hope it’s all over before you can say “hand over the TV control and MAFS is on”. not.
3. cheated
A wife may turn a blind eye to her husband’s failures, but a man does not. Their ego will not allow it. If they stay (and men rarely leave), you “quit” because they see it as a green light to do what they want.
4. Just because you see an escort doesn’t mean they don’t love you
They don’t want to leave you for another woman, and they most certainly don’t want to run away with an escort (and in the history of this planet an escort wants to run away with your husband). Never thought… you and your work home). Men are like puppies chewing on your shoes.
Amanda Goff, aka Samantha X, was an escort in her late 30s
He was confident, energetic, and knew how to pick up girls. Yes, welcome to “Ladies Man”. That should have been my first sign that he was trying to cheat – the guy wasn’t afraid to take action. was the constant side glance that he gave women. When I called him out on it, he simply said, “What?” I was just watching!
Sure enough, when I traveled abroad for the first time for work, I went back halfway down town and gossiped about him sleeping with one of his friends at a party. ah.
The third time I was tricked, it was a little harder to pick, but the signs were definitely there. At the beginning of our year-long relationship, he was caring, attentive, and smart. Fashion wasn’t for him, and Jim was “for those who are pressed for time.”
But then old signs began to emerge subtly.
On my first trip abroad for work, I was back in half town and gossiping about my boyfriend sleeping with one of my friends at a party.It hurts,” Yana wrote
“I wouldn’t let you spy on your partner’s phone (trust me, it sucks. It’s all about privacy), but if you feel like you might find something there, you probably do.” will,” she says.
It started with him placing his phone face down on the table. He then took his cell phone to the bathroom and never left it unattended. Then he decided he wanted to be super healthy and actually signed up at the local gym. Who was he trying to impress? Watched me eat, followed by a bowl of ice cream before making me move. So it wasn’t me he was trying to lure into bed.
Spoiler alert: It was the new girl at his place of work. bottom).
The point of these stories is that my gut told me something was up before the evidence was put in front of me. Whether it’s something as simple as getting started or consistently talking about “hilarious” new people at work, the signs are my friends.
And I go one step further. Usually our friends also know something is up. At the end of your relationship, ask them if your partner was a dud. They caught him checking out other women and noticed a new modern hairstyle he was sporting. Scammers may think they’re the mastermind, but if you look closely enough, the signs are always staring in your face.
Now I don’t condone looking at your partner’s phone (trust me, it sucks and you know, it’s all about privacy) but there’s something If you feel you might find a , you probably will.
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